I love talking about weddings, even after photographing them for over 14 years! All of the planning can be overwhelming – especially when it comes to one of the most important decisions of all…your wedding photographer! (Though slightly biased over here, it’s the thing that lasts after the wedding day is over, the cake is eaten and the flowers are gone.
But no fear – this guide will break it down to make the process easy! Let’s start with 3 considerations when selecting your wedding photographer. These are important. Ready??
I remember from our wedding planning days, the transition from
‘YEAY, WE’RE GETTING MARRIED!’ to ‘WAIT…I HAVE A WHOLE WEDDING TO PLAN!?’
Hopefully this guide to selecting a wedding photographer reduces that wedding-overwhelm at least a little. These guidelines will work for most of the major vendors you’ll select, with slight tweaks of course!
Step 1: Gather names. Ask everyone – your venue, coworkers, family, friends. You’re looking for people who LOVED their photographer. Search your venue or wedding style online. Check out their portfolios, scroll instagram, and visit WeddingWire for reviews.
Step 2: Create a list of 5-10 photographers you’re drawn to, and look at these 3 areas:
There are so many styles out there – light and airy, dark and moody, highly styled, photojournalistic, and so on. Here’s what to consider:
If style varies from picture to picture, it may be an indication that they haven’t really nailed down their look. You want to look at a photographer’s images and be able to imagine your wedding day like what you see in their portfolio.
Consider your day when you’re looking at style. I recently talked with a bride who appreciated the darker “dramatic” style, but it wasn’t what she pictured for her bright summer-in-the-garden wedding. Photographer style should match your vision for the day.
HINT: It doesn’t happen too often, but we sometimes talk with couples who haven’t narrowed in on their preferred style. This can make it challenging to advise them on us or the other guy (we don’t try to book every couple – just the ones who are the right fit for us!) when such a large question mark is unanswered.
Unless you want a strictly photojournalistic style with zero posing/interaction, your wedding photographer will be have a HUGE impact on your day. They’ll be there while you’re literally naked and getting into your gown, while you wait for your first look or ceremony with butterflies in your belly, and they’ll be directing your family & wedding party for portraits.
It is SO important that you really like the person behind the camera, and that they share the same goals because they’ll:
Figure out the energy that you want to share space with…
Lastly, find the photographer’s unique difference and make sure its in line with what you’re looking for.
For some, it will be their highly-styled portraits…for others, its that they specialize in pictures of the details, or more logistically, offer say, a photo booth.
I would say our difference is catching real moments really photogenically (connection/emotion/love).
The kind where you’re like, this isn’t staged but its so beautifully natural and makes me feel something. That’s us.
PRO TIP: If this is important to you, look at the eyes of the subjects in a photographer’s portfolio. You’ll be able to tell if they’re posing or genuinely enjoying the moment, and if they’re comfortable…or not…in their eyes.
We also offer in both photography AND cinematic wedding videography, and Ben is an FAA-Certified Drone Operator (win!). These days, most couples want both photo & video (and those who didn’t get a video say it’s their biggest regret!), and choosing one team who provides both makes your life easy and delivers an incredibly smooth, seamless experience for you and your guests on your wedding day. Plus, did I mention the drone??
I didn’t get into budget here. Obviously this plays a big role in choosing an vendor for the day. There are a lot of good-intentioned wedding planning resources out there that may have you believe that wedding photography will be less than it actually is in your area. Boston + San Francisco are more expensive than the national average, for example.
Do your research and know what is realistic. Talk with your dream photographer about options. There’s a clear bias here of course, but your wedding pictures are so important. Besides your spouse, its the one thing you’ll have after the day is over.
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